Female Forum

Do you judge all men on your previous experiences?

2009-08-18T11:02:28+00:00

Do you judge all men on your previous experiences?

I see it a lot on facebook especially, People feel the need to slag each other off and tar every man off with the same brush…

Do you think it’s fair?

The thing is I very rarely see men do it about women

Hi Ladies, do you like male thongs on men?

2010-04-01T20:44:11+00:00

Hi Ladies,

I am quite new here and I wanted to get your opinion on male thongs.
Do you like them on men?
I was just curious to know your thoughts.
I wear them occasionally at home. I just have calvin klein standard male thongs.

Thanks and I look forward to your opinions!

All the best.

A female perspective needed

2010-01-25T15:05:07+00:00

Hi,

I was married to a gorgeous woman, we had an 8 month old baby and had only been married a year.

Things weren’t completely right, and she seemed to be withdrawing a bit. One weekend I took our son to my parents, when we came back she seemed different and said we should split up.
She then admitted she had cheated on me, but when it turned out the guy she had cheated with didn’t want her, she decided she wanted me back. I moved out, and we were slowly sorting things out when she met someone else, who is now her boyfriend! This was within a couple of months of us splitting.

She has been awkward over access to our son, after a big struggle I have managed to establish a routine she generally sticks to that I have him 2 nights per week. I pay a large amount of maintenance for the privilege!

When I go and pick him up, there is another man sitting on my sofa playing with my son and my dogs, after I go he sleeps in my bed with my wife!

Obviously, we’re divorcing now, but I am naturally having difficulty dealing with the betrayal, and searching for answers as to why a woman would act this way. The first guy she cheated with, she took our son to watch him horseriding on our 1st wedding anniversary (before I knew what was going on)

Is this normal female behaviour? What is wrong with her!!!!!!!!

She is 9 yrs younger than me(now 25) if that’s relevant at all.

girlfriend kicks butt?

2010-05-10T22:22:10+00:00

Hello,

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years + a couple of months. We met thru mutual friends. Our goofiness is probably the thing we enjoy sharing the most and what keeps us together. Today I’m 32 and she’s 26 by the way.

We have a bit of a “friendly competitive” side to us as well. For awhile now our competitive side came out in our “boardgame nights.” This consisted of her mentally kicking my butt in simpsons trivia, scrabble, boggle, scattergories, checkers, and many others. I don’t know if I’m just that bad or she’s just that good, but as time has gone by her boardgame domination has gotten more lopsided.

Some more background: She works behind the front desk of a large hotel here. She’s been working there for years and has encountered a couple of creeps in her time there. Although she frequently has one of the valet guys walk her to her car after her shift (she works mid shift so she gets off at 10pm), there’s been a couple times where she’s had to walk to her car alone and it makes her nervous. This was what prompted her to start taking kickboxing classes over a year ago.

After a recent boardgame whuppping, she (humorously) brought up that I might have to conceed her mental superiority. I told her I might be willing to conceed that if she admits that being a guy makes me the physical boss of the relationship. She paused for a moment and then joked that since shes been taking kickboxing she might surprise me! I laughed out loud at the thought of her being too physical because (although im not an athlete or kickboxer) I’m 5’10 and 193 lb while she’s a total “girlie girl” and 5’5 and 127 lb!

Neither of us would budge and we finally agreed to a “friendly match” to find out. Well our match was last saturday. To start it didn’t look much like kickboxing. More like her and I standing around in her backyard giggling and taunting eachother.

Then slowly we started to box and I found myself getting bopped left and right. None of her blows seemed to really hurt but they add up. I began back peddling for defense and found myself tripping over the garden hose and down I went. She just had this smirk on her face as she asked me if I was ok and if we should stop.

Of course stubbornness wouldn’t allow it. So we squared off again and a couple minutes later she began to get better of it again. Trying to fend off her blows left myself open for kick which totally knocked the wind out of me and I was on the ground seeing stars.

She asked me if I was ok and insisted we stop at this point. I did my best to act unfazed and play it off. But we both knew that it was soo over. And she’s had a permanent giggle ever since!

She has tried to soothe my ego by telling me she thinks it’s cute and not a big deal. But I find myself thinking… Am I just a wimp?? Or is it normal for a guy to underestimate a girl just because she’s a girl? Does training really make that much of a difference? Or has someone heard of an equally embarrasing moment which could make me feel better about all this?

Sex question for women

2010-02-10T07:17:39+00:00

My girlfriend never initiates sex and i can really only get her to do it once a week and even then it seems like im begging. When we first started going out we did it like crazy which i guess is usually how it is, and then it settled down to a normal amount of sex which was fine. We moved in together and she just never ever seems to be in the mood now and it doesnt even seem to dawn on her that we never ever do it more than once a week. Were both in our 20’s, she was 25 when we moved in so it just doesnt make sense. If u dont have sex in the prime of ur life when are u, when ur married with 3 kids? It upsets me cuz one im a guy and i need sex, and two it makes me feel like crap that she never ever initiates and turns me down alot. She jsut seems indifferent to sex. Ive broguht it up 3 times in a year and a half and told her i was kinda upset that she never wants to do it and she throws a crazy screaming crying fit and denies that she turns me down and claims that she intitiates even tho she never ever ever ever does. Its really weird i dont know why she goes nuts and then gets delusional and says stuff thats not true. I keep tellin her im very happy with her and i love but i wanna have sex like every other couple. Any thoughts?

“you are not passionate enough” says my girlfriend

2009-12-13T15:49:42+00:00

HI, everyone!

i need some assistance in my relationship… would anyone please give me some advice…

I’m a college student studying in a university about 5hrs from my girlfriend and the only way we get to communicate is through the phone and internet… but lately,she finds our relationship boring or stagnant… am i doing something wrong? or is it that she is confused at times… im already 22yrs. old and she’s still 18yrs. old… could it be the age or just the way we think? she says; at times I’m insensitive and lack in passion…

of course, i know that I’m not passionate at times to listen and am finding it hard to understand her… recently, she said; “i want you” but i got it wrong and only replied; “ i wanna hold you close to...” was it wrong?

yours truly,

Lostkid

How would you create your perfect sexual partner?

2010-04-07T00:12:49+00:00

I have had a number of partners and it interests me that while I have never had any negative feedback about my stamina or technique during sex i have had some comments about size. I put this down to being relatively average (7.5” long and 6” around) as some have suggested I am too big and some have suggested that they would like bigger.

This raises the question for me: Do women have a perfect size they would like if they were able to model their lover from clay and create their perfect man?

My GF’s sons hits my GF

2008-10-28T09:58:26+00:00

Dear users of this forum,

First I would like to apologize for intruding this female environment, but I have no idea where to go with this issue. I hope you don’t mind.
Second; I am foreign (Dutch), so please be kind on my typo’s and use of words/sentences.

Let me first introduce you to the situation.
My GF learnt to know the father of her child when she was 14, by the time she was 17 she got pregnant and at 18 she deliverd her son. All the time, he dis was violent, he even had the guts to keep her locked into a trailer to make sex, when she didn’t want to, he punched her several times in the stummach, while she was pregnant!

The father insisted without any agreement from my GF that the son needed to be named the same way as he did. So he has the same first and last name as his dad. Not even with the addiditon of Jr. After he got born, the guy quickly disappeared out of her live not to be seen for a while. My girlfriend raised her son with her mom’s help. More than normally needed, since she was abusing alcohol and narcotics. That went on for many, many years and through time she meat several wrong boyfriends with just one goal; that special place every woman has, making it possible to grow new life, for use only of their pleasure.

I can imagine that her son really had to suffer, since he did not had a father, and often not a mother. But he was a nice kid, just until 2-3 years ago.
6 years ago, my girlfriend let the father back into her and her son’s life, since she thought he had the right to know who his father is. Unfortunattely, he yells at him, make him do what he would like to be done and more of such stuff. He only came by once every while, when he pleased to. He does not pay a penny to my girlfriend (she also now refuses it, she does not want his money, I would let that guy pay, but that’s me) But since recently he is back out of their life for a while.

This had to due with coming to my girlfriends appartment, he kept on yelling and call her names. At a certain point, he started to call her whore and such words. she tried to get the door shut, but he managed to steal their dog. Her son did got the dog back later, but she told him to never come back and if he wants to see his son, he should see him on his own turf. (which is a problem, since he still lives with his mom)

After this little introduction, we come to the present day.
Her son is flunking school and yesterday one of the teachers called my girlfriend asking why he was failing school, since he does have potential and is in honor role?.
My girlfriend went to his room and asked if she could help. He just had to write a essay of 1000 words in two sentences. He did not know how to do it, and my girlfriend offered to go back to Winco’s and buy a little guide for writing a essay.
He got mad once again and yelled, screamed, called her terrible names, she should shut the F*** up and he started to punch holes in the wall again and kicked furniture.
So far, it is within reasonable proportions, I know I didn’t do it when I was younger, but ok.

Than something happened, he started to threaten my girlfriend. Said he was going to kick her if she did not go away. My GF said; go ahead(I know BIG mistake) and he kicked her quite hard. Said he would break her nose if he did not went away. So she did and called me.

I only managed to calm her a little down before she went to bed.
The thing is that I live in The Netherlands and she in Oregon, USA. Which I hate at this point.But I imagine you can agree with me here.
If it was me; I would give that kid a big A**wiping, but it is not my son and I am not being able to.
So I am asking for advice; what can my girlfriend do?? To who can she turn to for help?

P.s. My girlfriend is clean of narcotics for the last 6-7 years, stopped smoking 1,5 years ago and since we got involved a little than a year ago< i don’t let her drink anymore.

Your opinion please: how attractive do you find this body?

2010-04-08T12:29:45+00:00

First of all I have to thank you for giving men the possibility to ask for advice on this forum. I appreciate that very much.

I ask the question because my body looks quite similar to the one shown in the picture and because I can build muscle and lose fat quite fast so I can ‘’model’’ my body a bit how I want it to be.

So on a scale from 1 to 10, how attractive do you rate this body? (10 being most attractive)
And what particularly do you find attractive or unattractive?

Thanks in advance!

Running a house after a divorce

2010-02-01T15:57:56+00:00

Hi there,

I would really appreicate some advice!
Basically, in the last 6 months I have found out that my wife has been cheating on me for the past 3 years with 2 different men. I actually found this out whilst on active Service in Iraq last year. I was trying to make a go of it but have recently just found out that she has been hiding a huge amount of debt from me…

So my request for advise is this.......

I am hoping to have the home & the children. If I do, to put it bluntly....how do I start running a household....I mean from top to bottom.

I worked away for the last 20 years & my wife ran the house completely. I feel like a fish out of water.......

I just do not know where to start! this might sound like another useless man story but nothing can be further from the truth! I am capable of running a house....I just have never had to do it!

So if anyone has ANY hints or tips, they would be much appreicted…

Many thanks.