I am 25 and have no problem getting dates with women my age. I’m a young professional and

have confidence in my abilities with women my age. However, I am incredibly attracted to

older women. I find such beauty in maturity. I work in a professional environment where I am

around professional older women all the time. I can’t help but fantasize about them. There

is something about a woman who is well versed, educated, smart, and mature that drives me

wild. So I try to ask them out and start to go some dating sites ，such as cougarchats etc…I am eager to have a long good relationship with a mature woman. Friends look at me

with eyes of contempt.Is this wrong? And if it’s not, do older women even take men my age

seriously?

Look, who you date is up to you ...

Some women like younger men and the energy they have fine..

As long as the relationship is a healthy and consensual one then what other people think is their business and you must have the courage of your convictions and stick with what you want and not what others expect.

I wouldn’t worry about your friends reaction… it is your life and you are entitled to be with women with whom you mutually respect, enjoy and love.

Oh ja, there are most certainly women who lean towards younger men… these days many women wish to retain a certain amount of independence which does not always work when dating an older man who generally assumes a protective and paternal role… so absolutely, follow your heart jollycat.