Hello, OliveJack. I am also wondering how you are now? Of course, you’ll always grieve for your boyfriend. But I hope you are happier today and living your life the way you want.
Take care – and if you are reading this – I do hope things are going well for you.
I do actually like spiders, although I would probably step back in fear if I saw a large one crawl slowly from underneath the bed! I have caught – and released – many spiders over the years. I always put them in a glass and put them outdoors. I could never kill a spider [unless it was poisonous]. I am able to handle them, actually. [But not large spiders!]
I can be like that as well, mikki. I just get impatient to get my point-of-view heard! Still, I try to reign it in. I also make eye contact with a guy to let them know I am listening. Being a good listener is very important to me: even if I do jump in sometimes. Still, no one is perfect. But you’ve got the approach right.
In your shoes, I would’ve walked away years ago. He sounds very controlling and unpleasant. I don’t see why you’d need to question leaving: you’re in a toxic relationship and – as bunnyhabit19 has said – you deserve someone who treats you like a princess. I cannot see any appeal in staying with him. I know I am being blunt, but you deserve the…[Read more]
Hi, Rabbit says it as it is so we must sort of agree with her. I do think your relationship is too one sided, most men only care about what suits them, we on the other hand want all the other things that go with being a couple, love, caring for each other, being considerate, romantic and yes a good sex life too. If you are only getting his…[Read more]