Affect of Pornography In a Relationship

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  • #58804

    It seems that everyone has different ideas about it and I’d say that the problems start when a couple have different ideas.

    #189204

    Personally, a guy who watches porn doesn’t bother me. I watch porn, so I couldnt be too upset. If he were watching huge amounts of porn and wasn’t having sex with me then I would be concerned.

    Also, what girl wouldn’t want to feel so special to someone she cares about? However, it is unrealistic to think that a man won’t find someone else attractive… that doesn’t make him like/love you less or automatically mean he’s going to trade you in like a baseball card. I still find other guys attractive, I can’t help it if my eyes like what they see. It matters what you do with it. I am the kind of person that would want my man to be comfortable enough to be able to say “Wow, she’s pretty. Do you think so babe?” Although I also feel like that might be a stretch in reality.

    But if you do that to prey on my insecurities, then I’d ask you to keep that to yourself from that point on. I think mostly anything can be worked through if you have similar morals and you can be open and honest with each other. Hope this helps! (:

    #189249

    If you are in a loving relationship and have regular and spontaneous sex he should not need porn. I have always found it a bit crude anyway, If you look after your figure and keep wearing the skimpy lingerie he will always fancy you ahead of some crude and loveless cheap sex film. I have to admit to a spot of roleplay sometimes I do find that a turn on lol.

    #189343

    I agree with mikki. There is no need for porn if your sex life with your partner is fulfilling. From the very little I have been exposed to porn is pretty unrealistic sex anyway. I for sure would not want to be treated in the bedroom the way most of those women are treated.

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    #189388

    You are right TEARKNEE  I would not like to be treated like that either, they usually boil down to basic sex with no romance ( I love romance ! ). Tenderness and consideration for your partner is the best way to go.

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    #189434

    You are right TEARKNEE I would not like to be treated like that either, they usually boil down to basic sex with no romance ( I love romance ! ). Tenderness and consideration for your partner is the best way to go.

    You are so right mikki. Romance is the key in my opinion to what happens in the bedroom.

    #189571

    Ah romance and a handsome guy beside you, what more could you ask for.

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    #190020

    Ah romance and a handsome guy beside you, what more could you ask for.

    I actually love the romancing that goes on before the sex…… wait did I just say that. 😄

    #190176

    The romancing is the best bit.

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    #190284

    The romancing is the best bit.

    It certainly is. I actually enjoy the nights where I just snuggle up on the couch with my guy and watch a movie.

    #190376

    🙂

    #190909

    Yes a good film on the  settee with my guy ( I put my feet under his jumper to keep them warm in the Winter, so he has other uses ).

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    #190970

    Yes a good film on the settee with my guy ( I put my feet under his jumper to keep them warm in the Winter, so he has other uses ).

    That sounds comfy.

    #191597

    Oh it is Tearknee, it warms him up to if you know what I mean lol.

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    #191644

    Oh it is Tearknee, it warms him up to if you know what I mean lol.

    Warms him up and gets him going.

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