August 14, 2014 at 11:45 am #58804
It seems that everyone has different ideas about it and I’d say that the problems start when a couple have different ideas.May 30, 2018 at 3:33 pm #189204
Personally, a guy who watches porn doesn’t bother me. I watch porn, so I couldnt be too upset. If he were watching huge amounts of porn and wasn’t having sex with me then I would be concerned.
Also, what girl wouldn’t want to feel so special to someone she cares about? However, it is unrealistic to think that a man won’t find someone else attractive… that doesn’t make him like/love you less or automatically mean he’s going to trade you in like a baseball card. I still find other guys attractive, I can’t help it if my eyes like what they see. It matters what you do with it. I am the kind of person that would want my man to be comfortable enough to be able to say “Wow, she’s pretty. Do you think so babe?” Although I also feel like that might be a stretch in reality.
But if you do that to prey on my insecurities, then I’d ask you to keep that to yourself from that point on. I think mostly anything can be worked through if you have similar morals and you can be open and honest with each other. Hope this helps! (:
1 member liked this post:May 30, 2018 at 4:44 pm #189249
If you are in a loving relationship and have regular and spontaneous sex he should not need porn. I have always found it a bit crude anyway, If you look after your figure and keep wearing the skimpy lingerie he will always fancy you ahead of some crude and loveless cheap sex film. I have to admit to a spot of roleplay sometimes I do find that a turn on lol.May 30, 2018 at 6:29 pm #189343
I agree with mikki. There is no need for porn if your sex life with your partner is fulfilling. From the very little I have been exposed to porn is pretty unrealistic sex anyway. I for sure would not want to be treated in the bedroom the way most of those women are treated.
1 member liked this post:May 30, 2018 at 7:28 pm #189388
You are right TEARKNEE I would not like to be treated like that either, they usually boil down to basic sex with no romance ( I love romance ! ). Tenderness and consideration for your partner is the best way to go.May 30, 2018 at 9:27 pm #189434
You are right TEARKNEE I would not like to be treated like that either, they usually boil down to basic sex with no romance ( I love romance ! ). Tenderness and consideration for your partner is the best way to go.
You are so right mikki. Romance is the key in my opinion to what happens in the bedroom.May 30, 2018 at 10:29 pm #189571
Ah romance and a handsome guy beside you, what more could you ask for.May 31, 2018 at 4:38 pm #190020
Ah romance and a handsome guy beside you, what more could you ask for.
I actually love the romancing that goes on before the sex…… wait did I just say that. 😄May 31, 2018 at 5:57 pm #190176May 31, 2018 at 9:54 pm #190284
The romancing is the best bit.
It certainly is. I actually enjoy the nights where I just snuggle up on the couch with my guy and watch a movie.May 31, 2018 at 11:11 pm #190376June 1, 2018 at 5:30 pm #190909
Yes a good film on the settee with my guy ( I put my feet under his jumper to keep them warm in the Winter, so he has other uses ).June 1, 2018 at 6:07 pm #190970
Yes a good film on the settee with my guy ( I put my feet under his jumper to keep them warm in the Winter, so he has other uses ).
That sounds comfy.June 2, 2018 at 8:50 pm #191597
Oh it is Tearknee, it warms him up to if you know what I mean lol.June 2, 2018 at 9:09 pm #191644