August 14, 2014 at 11:45 am #58804
It seems that everyone has different ideas about it and I’d say that the problems start when a couple have different ideas.May 30, 2018 at 3:33 pm #189204
Personally, a guy who watches porn doesn’t bother me. I watch porn, so I couldnt be too upset. If he were watching huge amounts of porn and wasn’t having sex with me then I would be concerned.
Also, what girl wouldn’t want to feel so special to someone she cares about? However, it is unrealistic to think that a man won’t find someone else attractive… that doesn’t make him like/love you less or automatically mean he’s going to trade you in like a baseball card. I still find other guys attractive, I can’t help it if my eyes like what they see. It matters what you do with it. I am the kind of person that would want my man to be comfortable enough to be able to say “Wow, she’s pretty. Do you think so babe?” Although I also feel like that might be a stretch in reality.
But if you do that to prey on my insecurities, then I’d ask you to keep that to yourself from that point on. I think mostly anything can be worked through if you have similar morals and you can be open and honest with each other. Hope this helps! (:May 30, 2018 at 4:44 pm #189249
If you are in a loving relationship and have regular and spontaneous sex he should not need porn. I have always found it a bit crude anyway, If you look after your figure and keep wearing the skimpy lingerie he will always fancy you ahead of some crude and loveless cheap sex film. I have to admit to a spot of roleplay sometimes I do find that a turn on lol.May 30, 2018 at 6:29 pm #189343
I agree with mikki. There is no need for porn if your sex life with your partner is fulfilling. From the very little I have been exposed to porn is pretty unrealistic sex anyway. I for sure would not want to be treated in the bedroom the way most of those women are treated.May 30, 2018 at 7:28 pm #189388
You are right TEARKNEE I would not like to be treated like that either, they usually boil down to basic sex with no romance ( I love romance ! ). Tenderness and consideration for your partner is the best way to go.May 30, 2018 at 9:27 pm #189434
[quote quote=189388]You are right TEARKNEE I would not like to be treated like that either, they usually boil down to basic sex with no romance ( I love romance ! ). Tenderness and consideration for your partner is the best way to go. [/quote]
You are so right mikki. Romance is the key in my opinion to what happens in the bedroom.May 30, 2018 at 10:29 pm #189571
Ah romance and a handsome guy beside you, what more could you ask for.May 31, 2018 at 4:38 pm #190020
[quote quote=189571]Ah romance and a handsome guy beside you, what more could you ask for. [/quote]
I actually love the romancing that goes on before the sex…… wait did I just say that. 😄May 31, 2018 at 5:57 pm #190176
The romancing is the best bit.May 31, 2018 at 9:54 pm #190284
[quote quote=190176]The romancing is the best bit. [/quote]
It certainly is. I actually enjoy the nights where I just snuggle up on the couch with my guy and watch a movie.May 31, 2018 at 11:11 pm #190376June 1, 2018 at 5:30 pm #190909
Yes a good film on the settee with my guy ( I put my feet under his jumper to keep them warm in the Winter, so he has other uses ).June 1, 2018 at 6:07 pm #190970
[quote quote=190909]Yes a good film on the settee with my guy ( I put my feet under his jumper to keep them warm in the Winter, so he has other uses ). [/quote]
That sounds comfy.June 2, 2018 at 8:50 pm #191597
Oh it is Tearknee, it warms him up to if you know what I mean lol.June 2, 2018 at 9:09 pm #191644
[quote quote=191597]Oh it is Tearknee, it warms him up to if you know what I mean lol. [/quote]
Warms him up and gets him going.
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