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  • #125760

    Hi girls!

    I’ve got quite an intimate issue and I need to ask you for advice. I’m not really a slim person (size 14) and therefore I’m not so confident about my body. I’ve had this crazy idea of surprising my boyfriend and showing up in some sexy lingerie at his place but… what if I look ridiculous? What do you think?

    #125787

    Sweetie! He will love it as much as he loves you! Never forget that you are amazing. But I totally understand your point – sometimes I feel my insecurities more and it really affects my humour and everything. It is important to talk about it with your close friends and s. o. If you do not feel totally comfortable in some ligenrie you can look for those in which you will feel like a queen! I believe in you, go girl!

    #125792

    Thank you so much for your support! I suppose I should finally believe in myself too… My boyfriend is really sweet and supportive and he always tells me that I’m beautiful etc… Also I wasn’t thinking of anything extremely provocative, actually I would go for some chemise, like this one https://obsessive.com/pln_en/products/chemises-and-dresses/chemises/suella-chemise-thong-9358 Do you like it?

    #125920

    That is cute. 🙂 Not too OTT, it will go down a bomb.

    I used to be sensitive about my body, but i decided, it was not as good as some, but better than others, and if the SO fancies me……..

    Why else should I worry. 😉

    #126016

    That is cute. 🙂 Not too OTT, it will go down a bomb. I used to be sensitive about my body, but i decided, it was not as good as some, but better than others, and if the SO fancies me…….. Why else should I worry. 😉

    Kit,

    I’m with what, Cherry said to you on this.

    As for me I really don’t ever remember having any of body issues in my life.  At least so far.

    #126167

    I like it. As Cherry said – not OTT. I am a 14 (UK)  as well and would love to wear it. I just need to pull in my tum a bit at those special moments. Some things can be an irritation but generally I love my body.

    #126333

    Thank you girls! I honestly admire your self-confidence. I guess it will take some time but I’ll try to accept my body and the fact that I’m not a VS model. 😉

    #127322

    MissKat, that looks comfortable and as long as you are comfortable wearing it. Like not poking or pulling you, go for it!

    Im pretty sure guys don’t think about a third of the things we do in regards to our body image. They love the attention and affection and are probably just thinking about that 😍

    #127598

    haha great Idea. I think he will love it. 😉

    #127856

    We are all beautiful: whether we’re a size 14 or 16. Your boyfriend fancies you for good reason! Go to his in sexy lingerie and have some fun!

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