I wear mostly 3 or 3 1/2 inch heels for work, but for going out I like really tall heel like these pictures at 4 1/2 inches. I’m tall and have a long foot 11b shoe, so that helps me wear a taller heel.
I’m so sorry you struggle with heels KitKatKitty, I know how much you love them!
I’ve found for myself, I have better success with heels when I step toe-to-heel instead of heel-to-toe. I feel I maintain my walk better and I have an easier time balancing, even with very thin heels. Of course, I’m only on about 3″, lol so I don’t know if this works for longer heels.
You’re right: I do love heels. I often feel jealous when I see the ease at which other women wear their high heels: they seem so self assured and comfortable, where I struggle even with chunky boot heels. It does feel unfair, to be honest. But – thankfully – there are many shoes for women designed with lower heels. I do like wearing stylish shoes: I just have to look around further for them.