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  • #10316

    I am I the only women who hates that her man watches porn????

    #64435

    My SO does it, I don’t mind. Theirs doesn’t work for me though.

    I do too, to a lesser extent, it doesn’t take anything away from the relationship imo.

    I can’t believe that I could be E V E R Y T H I N G to them, so whatever keeps us going is all right by me.

    May I ask what you hate about it?

    #64439

    To be honest if mine did (which I don’t know if he does or doesn’t) I wouldn’t mind.

    I guess I just wouldn’t want to know about it!

    For example, I would mind if he was too busy doing that to spend time with me!

    #64441

    @acherrystone
    I feel like I should be enough.

    #64442

    What make me the maddest is that he does it while I am home. I feel like he could a least do it when I am not around.

    #64443

    Well I did hit the fan over porn a few years back, but I’m pragmatic about it.

    While he was using porn, but not bothering to have sex with me it was a problem. To be honest, we still don’t have sex particularly regularly (it’s an on-going thing with his low-sex drive), but if he wants to use porn every now and then then that’s his business. Gods knows my poor dildo gets it’s fair share of action and it’s not all that different is it?

    #64445

    Justme72, have you voiced to him that you would prefer he not watch when you were around? That seems like a fair compromise?

    #64446

    Yes…i have absolutely expressed how I feel. He just thinks i over react and it’s just what guys do.

    #64471

    No, it’s not just what guys do.

    Guys who want to be in a relationship, listen, and act on their partner’s needs.

    I think you need a longer conversation……

    #64494

    I agree with Cherry. This is obviously bothering you and he needs to understand you do not and will not tolerate it. Maybe you are open to a compromise but if he wants your respect he needs to meet you half way (do it when you aren’t around, take up another hobby while you are home maybe one you can both enjoy together).

    #64495

    Together is not in option. I have told him how I feel but it doesn’t seems to matter. He tries to be sneaky about it. But I still catch him doing it even after he said he wouldn’t. .

    #64503

    I can understand your anger. In fact, feeling bothersome about your OH watching porn is normal. I don’t think you’ll be able to stop him watching porn, but you can set boundaries like he must not use it when you’re in the house or only using it once a week. Whatever, you get the gist. He does have a right to watch porn, so I don’t think you should stop him but you have every right to set ground rules about it.

    #64504

    He has the right ??? Why? I don’t get that.

    #64512

    Well, do you really want him to do just what you want, or can he have his own opinions?

    Is this the thin end of the wedge for you?

    #64513

    Having his own opinion has nothing to do with porn…im just saying.

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