• I do recommend using a credit card, but like @Cassandra says, not carrying a balance.  Not only is it safer for you, but you’re also losing money if you don’t use one.

    I use a points card from my bank, and I pay all my bills through my card. I also buy everything through that, and then pay from my checking account.  This December I cashed in my p…[Read more]

  • @cassandra I just mean general health questions, obviously I’ll see the doctor. Recently I’ve been getting horrible sharp stabbing pain in my vagina, I always get it, I get checked for urinary tract infections and I’m not sexually active nor am I in a relationship so it can’t be an STD or an STI so I don’t know what’s causing it. It feels horrible…[Read more]

  • SpinningJen replied to the topic Thinking gifts in the forum General Chat 1 year ago

    Thank you @cassandra . The windmills here are not so essential as they are used purely for grinding grain, and more a tourist attraction. There are various pumping stations on the fens to organise water levels but it is not so much of an issue here. The fen close to me is not the main parts near the Wash  (toward north Norfolk), and I suspect…[Read more]

  • Hi All,

    I would like to share the results of our survey with all of you! Thanks a million for participating in my survey.

    I wrote a blog post about how to find great gifts for women & I posted it on this website.

    @Cassandra: I even took the liberty to mention one of your quotes. I hope that is OK with you.

    Feel free to comment on the article…[Read more]

  • A lot of what you’re describing reminds me of my ex boyfriend, and he was manipulative and abusive.  I agree with @cassandra, putting up with his abuse can be very difficult, especially when he does things like he blames it all on you.  You’ve recognized his cycles, he’s probably only going to get worse, I wasted nine years on my boyfriend that I…[Read more]