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I love your boots, Mamie! They are very cool.

I am addicted to U2 music videos ATM.

Gorgeous!

I’ve got it and have sent a reply!

I liked Tearknee, too. I often wish there were many more members on here. But it’s an open forum, so anyone can access the site and register with Female Forum. Maybe there should be word of mouth? Or just general advertising on the Internet?

Just a few thoughts.

You’re lucky, Rhonda333. I wish I were fearless. Being secure and never worried or scared must be wonderful.

If only.

You can’t be someone you’re not: and if you’re not hot enough for your boyfriend, then he isn’t worth your time or effort. He should love you for you: not expect you to be taller/have longer hair/be slimmer/etc. There is a whole checklist of what a man wants in a woman, but the reality is everyone is human. You don’t have to look perfect to be…[Read more]

She seemed friendly and enthusiastic. It had certainly appeared that she’d stay around a long time. I don’t know what happened there. I do feel we need more people on here: it – sometimes – feels like a ghost town. Everyone has really good advice and I would love to help more people solve their IRL problems. Because it is a complicated life with…[Read more]

Thank you, rabbithabit. I will keep that in mind.

I agree, Vkrasno. I definitely can NOT walk on spike heels: I simply lose my balance and fall over. It is always in block heels, if I decide on shoes with height.

I do own court shoes: and love them. I am looking forward to wearing feminine summer shoes in the next few months. I really love foot wear. Actually, I have a good selection of…[Read more]

I am sorry I got back to you so late, Rachel. I will be happy to do so.

If you do both decide to move on, it will be hard. But maybe there’s someone else out there for you. Some people do believe that things happen for a reason: maybe this is the reason.

However, it is still heartbreaking. Having an emotional bond with someone can never be forgotten, but there are more than one person out there for each of us: maybe…[Read more]

I am glad my advice was received well. It is heartbreaking but we all have to move on. I have another good friend who moved away. We still see each other and I hope we will always be good friends. I don’t think an emotional bond can ever be severed. This includes my elderly, dear friend, Michael. I miss him terribly.

Life can be upsetting sometimes.

No, she didn’t stay long, SpinningJen. Everyone knows I am an long going member: I suppose I am because I feel comfortable here. Everyone knows their own mind and is assertive rather than a bull in a china shop. I don’t see the point of going anywhere. I was on the Cosmo magazine website for a number of years, but it shut down. That was a shame,…[Read more]

I wouldn’t say I was strict with myself: because I don’t crave a lot of food. But off the menu is:

cake/ice cream/biscuits/sweets/chocolate

This seems severe but I just can’t eat those foods. Steering clear is no problem but I much rather be slim than not.

Stephy08’s right: you look great!

Welcome to Female Forum, Stephy08!

I definitely do the same as you, SpinningJen: I buy in bulk, I take advantage of offers, etc. I pay for things I want in instalments, too.

Being responsible and careful with money is very important to me. I have bank accounts: all with their own purpose. Because I am so strict with myself, I only owe my sister a little money. But I’d still like…[Read more]

He obviously liked you. You were definitely right to find a different therapist. He certainly invaded those boundaries of therapist and patient.

Good luck with your new therapist. I have had counselling myself and it does help. It’s great to have that support in your life and deal with all the emotions that life brings.

I hate domestic abuse, Mamie: that you went through such a situation. I don’t feel pity, but I do realize you’ve been through tough times. There are no words to describe a man who would put their partner in such a situation. But you’re stronger and wiser and much stronger that your ex. He isn’t worth a cup of tea.

Back to anxiety: it is a curse…[Read more]

I agree with you, Vkrasno. You have to find the love within yourself: not take love from other people as confirmation of your self-love. Basically, love comes from how you feel about yourself deep down. Of course there is the love of a partner – and it does make life sweet – but sometimes we have to look within for self confirmation. Like today, I…[Read more]