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Hello, OliveJack. I am also wondering how you are now? Of course, you’ll always grieve for your boyfriend. But I hope you are happier today and living your life the way you want.

Take care – and if you are reading this – I do hope things are going well for you.

I do actually like spiders, although I would probably step back in fear if I saw a large one crawl slowly from underneath the bed! I have caught – and released – many spiders over the years. I always put them in a glass and put them outdoors. I could never kill a spider [unless it was poisonous]. I am able to handle them, actually. [But not large spiders!]

Could anyone enlighten me? Thank you!

I can be like that as well, mikki. I just get impatient to get my point-of-view heard! Still, I try to reign it in. I also make eye contact with a guy to let them know I am listening. Being a good listener is very important to me: even if I do jump in sometimes. Still, no one is perfect. But you’ve got the approach right.

In your shoes, I would’ve walked away years ago. He sounds very controlling and unpleasant. I don’t see why you’d need to question leaving: you’re in a toxic relationship and – as bunnyhabit19 has said – you deserve someone who treats you like a princess. I cannot see any appeal in staying with him. I know I am being blunt, but you deserve the…[Read more]

Funnily enough, my heels saved me from a drenching today! Seriously. I went to a nearby garden centre and was behind an isle when the shop assistant came around with a hose. He told me he only hadn’t soaked me because he heard my heels in time! That was lucky. I very nearly did not wear those shoes today. Weird.

Also, another weird thing happened…[Read more]

My mother also lived in mess, Mamie. She passed away a few years ago, but she also chained smoked and never did any cleaning. She lived an awful life. Anyhow, knowing your mum lives like that is heartbreaking. There isn’t anything you can do, though.

Regards to sunflower1: sometimes you have to leave people to decide for themselves. I left my mum…[Read more]

I think the entire world is dangerous. Crime is never eradicated. That isn’t to say the police and authorities do nothing – or not enough – but it does mean there are dangerous, violent people that keep attacking. I know places where if you so much as say the wrong thing, you’re beaten up. It is wrong and it is violent, but violence in people will…[Read more]

This sounds odd, but I have no idea as to who these people are! What exactly happened? I don’t really follow celebrities [aside from Mariah Carey and Christina Aguilera!] but would like to know more.

This sounds a little religious, but I am never alone: I have God.

I truly know in my heart that there is a god. It’s a belief that has never left me. And it isn’t just from believing what the church says: it is a deep, inner knowledge.

Anyhow, reading people’s stances on their confidence levels is very interesting. It is wonderful to have such a…[Read more]

Welcome, Ronnie. I hope you get technical issues sorted.

I look forward to reading your posts.

Congratulations!

Hello, Krystal. Welcome to the forum!

P.S You’ve got a beautiful name.

Some men have no class. STOP WOLF WHISTLING.

P.S sorry for the capitals.

I often socialize and assist people with disabilites. I also work at a charity, doing general admin. I love working. Healthcare is wonderful. I also have done work within the media. I am computer-savvy and keep busy. Again, I love working.

It is senseless, but it is obviously something that needs the government to deal with. People must be protected and governments need to step up and protect. I think sometimes the people in power sit on their hands because the opposing country deals in oil/manufacturing/weapons/anything that is supplying money to the western countries. It all boils…[Read more]

I am interested in reading everyone’s response to that question. I do believe many people on here are happy with what they already have to a certain degree.

Talking from my perspective, I have traveled a lot already. I’ve been to Ireland, Sweden, Spain, Greece, Lanazote and Wales. Plus, around Britain and the Midlands. I would still like to go to…[Read more]

I think when young a lot of people do the same, TestDummyC. It is just a case to growing & learning. I certainly am not a perfect person and made many mistakes as a younger person. A lot of people do have growing to do: and in this make errors. It is because everyone is human.

I am sure you’ve grown up in many ways and are wiser in your life.

I am listening to “Art Angels” on YouTube by Grimes. It’s a really good album. Grimes has been around a long time in the music world. She changes her hairstyle more often than hot dinners. A skilled composer and performer.

Mariah Carey’s album “Butterfly”. That Mariah is genius.