mikki

Guys don’t plan ahead that is why we are the superior sex as we can out think them lol.

Hi, I think a gift for a lady from a spouse should be thoughtful and tie in with what she likes but does not have, a man should pick up clues along the way and when a birthday comes or anniversary go that extra mile. If hubby buys me something like but wish I had  I will give him a special reward if you know what I mean.

Well that penis toast will be something to look forward to in the morning or even at night lol.

Interesting post this, I think said mags just pray on women’s insecurities about life, clothes, make-up, hair and guys. We are always trying to look trendy and slim because it is expected in a male dominated society. I do dress for myself if it gets nice comments so much the better and like most women I feel good wearing a nice dress and smelling…[Read more]

Hi Mamie, lovely outfit but yes some sort of belt would set it off even better. Large florals are definitely in vogue now, I have several dresses with them on and love the look. Mikki x

Don’t mention cards, my mother would spend ages buying cards for everyone she knew and spent a fortune. We just hand deliver to a few friends and send some to our close relatives now.

Hi, I don’t tend to do a lot of Christmas shopping and usually wait for a list from my son and daughter-in-law for them and their children. Hubby is easy tools and a nice jumper suffice for him. He does get me nice things though usually what he thinks will make me look sexy ( life in the old dogs yet !

My hubby lets me do the lawn since I was critical of his cutting once, generally I do the garden anyway but always wear gloves to protect my hands. My biggest gripe is I keep breaking my nails ( will they ever be long and elegant again lol ? )

Hi just for a moment there I thought you were asking ” what if another women tried to pick you up “, that could have been an interesting  topic lol.

Hi Bunny, I think the longer you are married the more you trust your hubby ( thinking who would want him at this age lol ). when we were first married I was jealous when an attractive lady would try and flirt with him moving in quick to check things were ok.  However we all flirt a bit not meaning any harm, at my age if a younger guy flirts with…[Read more]

That is similar to me, I was with a company for years and had to let someone go I was in tears about it too. It seems the top bosses just get you to do it for them. I had the last laugh as the company went bust soon after ( bad management ! )

That’s you all over Rhonda, dark and mysterious with style lol.

Thanks Bunny we should be proud of being the superior sex lol

I do have an office job and have 3 skirt suits and a couple of smart plain dresses for the Summer and a small selection of ” sensible shoes ” to wear. We do have visitors so casual clothes are not allowed, there is pressure on us ladies to be smart at all times ( I like to be anyway ” but slightly less so for the guys, moan moan !!

I love being female because –

We are more tactile than men

Get to wear practically anything we like

More emotional and understanding

Have that maternal bond with our children

Have that ability to get our guys to do the horrible jobs around the house

Mess up the decorating so hubby takes over lol

and my fav thing sexy lingerie we can wear…[Read more]

Hi from me too, good luck in embracing womanhood.

Hi I like Rhonda’s post but if that does not work  try to be different in your lives. Try new things together, sadly if this does not work it could be the dreaded M word which affects mood and sex drive. I think you need to sit down and talk things through even a therapist might help. Good luck

Hi, when a relationship I had ended, I would go out and get a new hairdo and a couple of dresses and use my friends to help me socialise more. Usually this worked for me and my lfe would then take a different path with another guy on my arm.