• Hi ladies!  Well its been an emotional roller-coaster.  Hes still not home but should be giving us a return date tonight!  I ended up (reluctantly) giving ultimatum of no more than 6 months from when he left, that will be mid May.  The kids, especially my youngest miss him terribly.  She’ll be 13 in early May and has asked he come back for that…[Read more]

  • Thank you all so much!  Yes I’ve decided to leave it, I have asked a family member if he is ok, I’ve still not heard from him, been nearly a week now.  I am totally confused.  We literally had no problems before he left so this is just so confusing.  I was not planning to move there to fix any problems, just thought it was about time to sac…[Read more]

  • Thank you all!  Most points stated above I have thought about too (its been the only thing I’ve thought about) but the one that sticks out the most is the emotional hold his parents may hold, I’m guessing that has hit the nail on the head, they may not realise it as its in his head not theirs.

    I’ve asked him to come home to discuss moving t…[Read more]

  • Hi there, I am new to this but need some unbiased advice outside of my circle.

    My husband went home to USA recently for a 6 week holiday (we reside in NZ where we have lived our entire relationship of 18 years).  He has been there for nearly an extra 8 weeks now with no indication of a return date.  We planned the 6 weeks together and thought i…[Read more]

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