• Some so called Social Workers need help themselves. Vicky has a good friend that won’t let her down, but she needs some kind of stability to build on. Her life could get better by moving beyond the past.

  • Interesting  Netherland statistics, Cassandra. Such a low crime rate might be from a homogeneous society. People that share the same background and ethnicity tend to be kinder to each other. Consider peer pressure as well. Good behavior promotes more of the same.

    In our more violent cities, like nearby Chicago, neighbors don’t even know each…[Read more]

  • I had know idea the mayhem allowed. Ah, tradition, hard to change that. No wonder you, and probably plenty more others, hate New Years Eve. If it weren’t for loss of life, injuries, and property destruction, the night might be more enjoyable. Our New Years is too cold for blowing things up. Instead there are random shootings, either at each other…[Read more]

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    Terrihoney wrote:
    Wow! Another referred to POS republicans. So much for the forum’s claim to be accepting to all.

    So, freedom of speech is limited only to those with whom you agree? We’re expressing our opinions (just as you are), whether we agree with them or not.


    Referring to someone as a POS for their pol…[Read more]

  • Cassandra,

    I no longer harbor pain nor anger. I’m quite content with my current dating life. Sorry I brought up my past as it really had nothing to do with the subject at hand. This post is about men able to remain monogamous. Just asking that question, questioning fidelity, gives them the excuse to cheat on their wife or girlfriend like it’s…[Read more]

  • Yes there is such a thing as ‘normal’. We have evolved past basic animal instincts, men and women alike. I am divorced, a fat and drunk husband is a darn good reason. I doubt he ever cheated on me anyway, that would require an erection.

    I suppose that female animals can’t be aware of where the male animal has been before. No woman with self…[Read more]

  • Terrihoney replied to the topic usa very scary country in the forum In the News 3 years ago

    Bunnyhabit started this thread, echoed by several UK ladies. The USA is no more dangerous than other developed countries. We are 330 million, the UK is about 67 million. Do the math, of course there is more crime here in volume, not per population. I’m disappointed in the US liberal responses blaming President Trump. There was no crime before him?…[Read more]

  • Anna,

    Back when I was growing up, there were a few gays and lesbians. Transgender was nearly unheard off. Now days, every little boy that picks up a Barbie, his mother is rushing off for hormone blockers like it’s a status symbol. I can’t imagine the struggle you experience every day. Just be absolutely sure that a complete transition will make…[Read more]

  • Terrihoney replied to the topic Hiya in the forum Introductions 3 years ago

    I’m in the Chicago area. Shall we call you ‘Pagan’ for short?


  • Terrihoney replied to the topic Mature lady here in the forum Introductions 3 years ago

    Thank you all for the friendly welcomes! You all must be feeling older than your age, I didn’t consider myself ‘mature’ till I was offered a senior discount at a restaurant. Almost couldn’t finish my dessert! Time to stop coloring my hair.


  • Terrihoney replied to the topic My Nails in the forum Fashion & Lifestyle 3 years ago

    I would love to wear my nails longer, but they break too easily. Strengthener doesn’t help. I heard Biotin helps, but I don’t know about dosage. I work and garden, nails take a beating during the week. Getting them clean and polished for the weekend is worth the effort. I use cuticle oil to keep that area healthy. I love the deep red polish hues,…[Read more]

  • Terrihoney started the topic Mature lady here in the forum Introductions 3 years ago

    This forum looks like a lot of fun, different women from all over. I’m Terri, the ‘honey’ is a nickname I’ve had since High School. I’m 62 and live near Chicago, happily divorced, two grown children and three grand kids.

    Hope to have some interesting conversations.

  • Terrihoney became a registered member 3 years ago

  • Terrihoney became a registered member 3 years ago